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Question: We have small children. Where do we start when thinking about moving?
Answer: Moving into a new home is an exciting chapter for any family, but when you’re moving with children, it can also feel a bit overwhelming. Between sorting through all of their outgrown toys, keeping them entertained, and ensuring that sentimental items aren’t lost in the shuffle, it’s easy to become stressed.
The good news is that with a thoughtful approach and a bit of planning, you can turn this busy time into an opportunity for renewal, growth, and even family bonding. Here’s how to make your move as smooth as possible:
1. Start with a Decluttering Session
Before you begin packing, take the time to carefully declutter and organize your family’s belongings. Children outgrow their clothing, toys, and books quickly, so go through each child’s room and sort items into four categories:
- Keep: Items that your children currently use, love, and will appreciate in the new home.
- Donate: Gently-used toys, books, and clothes that can find a new life with another family or a local charity.
- Sell: Some items, like high-quality baby gear or barely worn coats, might be sold online or at a consignment shop.
- Recycle or Discard: Broken toys, worn-out clothing, and items that cannot be reused or donated should be responsibly recycled or thrown away.
2. Involve Your Children in the Process
If your kids are old enough, encourage them to help choose which items they keep and which to let go. This involvement can turn a potentially challenging process into a lesson in organization and sharing. Letting them select their favorite books, plush toys, or games to bring along helps foster a sense of control and excitement about the upcoming change.
3. Create a Dedicated Play Space During the Move
While you’re busy packing boxes and coordinating logistics, keep your children engaged with a dedicated play or craft area. Stock it with a selection of their most loved toys, puzzles, coloring materials, and maybe a tablet pre-loaded with educational apps or age-appropriate movies. This distraction will help you focus on the task at hand while ensuring the kids remain happy and occupied.
4. Consider Hiring Professional Help
If it’s within your budget, hire a professional organizer or a moving consultant. Such experts can streamline the process, provide tips for maximizing space in your new home, and even handle the sorting and packing. Having professionals on your side allows you to spend more quality time with your children and reduces the overall stress that comes with a major move.
5. Keep Communication Open and Positive
Throughout the moving process talk to your children about what to expect. Show them pictures of the new home and the new neighborhood, point out nearby parks, and describe their future bedrooms. Positive reinforcement and open communication help ease anxieties and turn uncertainty into eager anticipation.
6. Enjoy the Fresh Start in Your New Home
After the moving truck has pulled away and the last box is unpacked, take a moment to appreciate this new phase in your family’s life. The thoughtful choices you made — paring down belongings to the favorites your children truly love, involving them in the process, and seeking professional help if needed — create a more serene and organized environment. Now you can focus on building memories in your new space, together as a family.
Final Thoughts
Moving with children can seem challenging, but with a clear plan, a positive attitude, and the willingness to declutter and reorganize you can ensure a smooth transition. By being intentional with what you bring into your new home and making sure your kids feel involved and comfortable, you’ll set the stage for a joyful, stress-free start in your new environment.
Enjoy the fresh energy, the extra space, and, most importantly, the family moments waiting to unfold.
Hope Peele is a licensed real estate agent with Corcoran McEnearney in Alexandria, Virginia. She grew up in Old Town and currently lives in Del Ray. As a partner with The Peele Group, Hope is dedicated to guiding her clients successfully through the many-faceted process of buying or selling a home. Contact Hope at 703-244-6115.
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